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Frequently asked questions
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I believe chemistry, connection, and mutual comfort are far more important than a rigid list of services. Each encounter is unique, and I prefer to let things unfold naturally rather than reduce intimacy to a checklist.
I’m open-minded and accommodating within reason, always prioritizing mutual enjoyment, respect, and comfort. If you have specific preferences or curiosities, you’re welcome to share them when reaching out. I’m happy to discuss compatibility in advance.
For those who are familiar with common terminology, I may offer the following depending on chemistry and mood:
Intimacy & affection, erotic massage, cuddling & spooning, LFK/DFK, DATY, Russian, MPOS, dirty talk, protected FS, BBBJ (with optional CIMWS/COF/COB finish), DATO, anal play, MSOG.
I adore seeing couples. There are fewer things more fun than watching a couple play with one another and being invited to join! I need enthusiastic consent from both parties and a discussion of boundaries beforehand, so I can ensure we all have the best time together. Under no circumstances will I accept a booking where I am a 'surprise' for one party of the couple.
Bookings with couples do not operate on a deposit basis; I take 100% of the full fee upfront. This is non-refundable should you decide to cancel, but transferrable to a date within 60 days from the full fee being paid. I take the full fee upfront as couples have been notorious for rescheduling, cancelling, and disrespecting my business practices.
Dates with couples come with a surcharge of $300 per hour.
I prefer to meet in calm, beautifully appointed spaces chosen with intention and care. I prefer environments that feel relaxed, private, and quietly indulgent.
In Montréal, I currently offer outcall appointments only and would be delighted to join you at your hotel for a discreet and comfortable encounter.
Beginning late spring/early summer, I will be based in Ottawa, where I’ll be welcoming guests into a beautiful, thoughtfully designed loft in the Centretown/Westboro area. This space will reflect the same sense of ease, cleanliness, and understated luxury that I value in all of my environments.
I will also continue to offer outcalls to select 4- and 5-star hotels. For privacy and safety reasons, I do not visit private residences.
When touring, I host from refined hotel suites chosen for their comfort, discretion, and ambiance.
Full details are always shared once arrangements are confirmed.
When on tour, I recommend booking as far in advance as you can. I do not usually have much last minute availability while travelling.
When in Ottawa, I recommend booking at least 24-48 hours in advance to ensure availability, especially for longer engagements or special requests. However, as much as I hate the rush of unplanned days, I also understand that spontaneity can be exciting! If you’re looking for a last-minute arrangement, feel free to reach out, and I’ll do my best to accommodate.
Deposits are $50/hr payable via e-transfer (avastjames@protonmail.com)(mailto:avastjames@protonmail.com) or any of the following gift cards:
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Bordelle(https://www.bordelle.co.uk/products/virtual-gift-voucher?srsltid=AfmBOoplPBpMaG16DnBsg0BsGQhQ_zW0RoSJSuye0o_tBKgOiNLvYgys&variant=45560200102026)
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To ensure a comfortable and seamless experience, please provide the donation either before or at the beginning of our date. If paying cash, discreetly placed in an unsealed envelope or a gift bag is preferred. If we’re meeting in public, you may place it inside a gift bag or a book.
I take pride in presenting myself with a feminine, polished style that always suits the occasion.
For incall or studio settings, I tend to favour elevated athleisure. Soft, flattering pieces that highlight my natural shape while still feeling relaxed and approachable. Think the effortlessly sexy, comfortable, and inviting woman at your local gym or coffee shop.
When meeting for an outcall or a date, my style leans more toward chic, business-casual elegance. I enjoy putting together outfits that feel refined, feminine, and quietly confident, perfectly suited for anything from a fine dining experience to a more relaxed evening together.
That said, I’m always happy to tailor my look to your preferences. Whether you have something specific in mind or want to coordinate for a particular setting, I love creating a look that enhances the overall experience for us both.
Dates of three or more hours should include a meal or activity, such as a show (I adore the opera and ballet).
Overnight bookings must include at least one meal (plus breakfast, if booking 16 hours!), social time, and six hours uninterrupted sleep.
Dates of 24 hours or more should include adequate meals each day, social time, a minimum of six hours uninterrupted sleep each night, and a small amount of 'me time' so that I can recharge/respond to personal messages.
I appreciate your discretion and respect for my privacy. While I’ve shared a few select testimonials here, I kindly ask that no new reviews be posted.
Thank you for understanding.
For my safety and peace of mind, I do require a discreet and straightforward screening process for all new clients. Rest assured, your privacy is my utmost priority, and all information is handled with the highest level of confidentiality.
Some things I may ask for include:
• Real Name
• terb/merb/perb handle
• ID (sensitive information can be blanked out)
• Company website or Company email
• 1-2 recent provider references
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In the extremely unlikely event that I do cancel a date with you, it'll be because I've picked up multiple red flags and feel unsafe. These are included but not limited to; boundary pushing, requesting services I don't offer, or simply not taking the time to read my website and familiarise yourself with my business.
In the also extremely unlikely event that I am under the weather and cannot reschedule, you will receive your deposit back within 3 days.
Of course. My favourite flowers are peonies and roses, my favourite chocolates are Pierre Marcolini pralines, and my favourite perfume is Dolce & Gabbanna Devotion. My favourite wines are sweet whites, champagnes, and prosecco.
I also have a throne wishlist: throne.com/avastjames(http://throne.com/avastjames)
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