I like to think of our time together as a little escape from the outside world. A chance to slow down, indulge in conversation, and lose ourselves in the chemistry between two people.I’m drawn to dates that feel effortless and unhurried. Rather than following a script, I prefer to let the evening unfold naturally, discovering each other along the way and allowing that initial spark to become something warmer and more intimate.For a first date, my favourite beginning is a long, leisurely dinner over a bottle of wine before heading back to our hotel suite. There’s something especially lovely about taking our time, lingering over conversation, and letting the anticipation build before the rest of the evening unfolds.I don't believe in approaching our time together with a checklist or a catalogue of acronyms. If you're looking for something strictly transactional or highly structured, I may not be the right woman for you.Discretion is also very important to me. I maintain a no review policy because I believe the most meaningful part of our time together is that it belongs to us alone. What we share is private, and I prefer to leave it that way.

For shorter bookings, I am currently hosting guests at The Cougar's Den in Nepean, a private and discrete rental space open to independent providers. There is no signage and plenty of parking. For extended dates, overnight stays and special occasions, I’m happy to arrange a more luxurious setting. From a historic Ottawa landmark to a private hotel suite with room service, cocktails and a beautiful view, hotel dates are available by advance arrangement. The accommodation (covered by you) is selected according to the length of the date, availability and the experience you have in mind. I also offer outcalls for return clientele to select 4, & 5 star hotels. For privacy and safety reasons, I do not visit private residences.When touring, I host from refined hotel suites chosen for their comfort, discretion, and ambiance. Full details are always shared once arrangements are confirmed.

I appreciate your discretion and respect for my privacy. While I’ve shared a few select testimonials here, I kindly ask that no new reviews be posted. I maintain a no-review policy because I believe the most meaningful part of our time together is that it belongs to us alone. What we share is private, and I prefer to leave it that way.Thank you for understanding.

A $100 per hour deposit is required to secure all appointments. Deposits are applied toward the total fee and appointments are not confirmed until received. With 48+ hours notice, deposits may be transferred to a new date subject to availability. No-shows and late cancellations forfeit the deposit. Deposits are payable via e-transfer (avastjames@protonmail.com) or any of the following gift cards:Alo YogaAritziaLuluLemonSephora

To ensure a comfortable and seamless experience, please provide the donation either before or at the beginning of our date. If paying cash, discreetly placed in an unsealed envelope or a gift bag is preferred. If we’re meeting in public, you may place it inside a gift bag or a book.

For my safety and peace of mind, I do require a discreet and straightforward screening process for all new clients. Rest assured, your privacy is my utmost priority, and all information is handled with the highest level of confidentiality. Some things I may ask for include:Real Nameterb/merb/perb handleID (sensitive information can be blanked out)Company website or Company email

I adore seeing couples. There are fewer things more fun than watching a couple play with one another and being invited to join! I need enthusiastic consent from both parties and a discussion of boundaries beforehand, so I can ensure we all have the best time together. Under no circumstances will I accept a booking where I am a 'surprise' for one party of the couple. Bookings with couples do not operate on a deposit basis; I take 100% of the full fee upfront. This is non-refundable should you decide to cancel, but transferrable to a date within 60 days from the full fee being paid. I take the full fee upfront as couples have been notorious for rescheduling, cancelling, and disrespecting my business practices. Dates with couples come with a surcharge of $300 per hour.

When on tour, I recommend booking as far in advance as you can. I do not usually have much last minute availability while travelling. When in Ottawa, I recommend booking at least 24-48 hours in advance to ensure availability, especially for longer engagements or special requests. Same-day appointments may occasionally be accommodated depending on my schedule. To be considered, your inquiry must be accompanied by a deposit of $100 per hour .

I take pride in presenting myself with a feminine, polished style that always suits the occasion.For incall settings, I tend to favour elevated athleisure. Soft, flattering pieces that highlight my natural shape while still feeling relaxed and approachable. Think the effortlessly sexy, comfortable, and inviting woman at your local gym or coffee shop.When meeting for an outcall or a date, my style leans more toward chic, business-casual elegance. I enjoy putting together outfits that feel refined, feminine, and quietly confident, perfectly suited for anything from a fine dining experience to a more relaxed evening together.That said, I’m always happy to tailor my look to your preferences. Whether you have something specific in mind or want to coordinate for a particular setting, I love creating a look that enhances the overall experience for us both. Let me know if you'd prefer me in glasses, as that is something I can easily accommodate.

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In the extremely unlikely event that I do cancel a date with you, it'll be because I've picked up multiple red flags and feel unsafe. These are included but not limited to; boundary pushing, requesting services I don't offer, or simply not taking the time to read my website and familiarise yourself with my business.  In the also extremely unlikely event that I am under the weather and cannot reschedule, you will receive your deposit back within 3 days.

Of course. My favourite flowers are peonies and roses, my favourite chocolates are Pierre Marcolini pralines, and my favourite perfume is Dolce & Gabbanna Devotion. My favourite wines are sweet whites, champagnes, and prosecco. I also have a throne wishlist: throne.com/avastjames