Question 1

What services do you offer?

Accepted Answer

I believe chemistry, connection, and mutual comfort are far more important than a rigid list of services. Each encounter is unique, and I prefer to let things unfold naturally rather than reduce intimacy to a checklist.I’m open-minded and accommodating within reason, always prioritizing mutual enjoyment, respect, and comfort. If you have specific preferences or curiosities, you’re welcome to share them when reaching out. I’m happy to discuss compatibility in advance.these services are always at my discretion and may not be offered if your hygiene is not up to par. For those who are familiar with common terminology, I may offer the following depending on chemistry and mood: Intimacy & affection, erotic massage, cuddling & spooning, LFK, DATY, Russian, MPOS, dirty talk, protected FS, CBJ or BBBJ, CIMWS/COB, toys, anal play, DATO, golden shower (on you), MSOG (2hr+).Restrictions: BBFS, Greek, Pain

Question 2

What is your review policy?

Accepted Answer

I appreciate your discretion and respect for my privacy. While I’ve shared a few select testimonials here, I kindly ask that no new reviews be posted.

Thank you for understanding.

Question 3

Where can I send my deposit?

Accepted Answer

A $100 per hour deposit is required to secure all appointments. Deposits are applied toward the total fee and appointments are not confirmed until received. With 48+ hours notice, deposits may be transferred to a new date subject to availability. No-shows and late cancellations forfeit the deposit. Deposits are payable via e-transfer (avastjames@protonmail.com) or any of the following gift cards:https://throne.com/avastjamesAritziaLuluLemonSephora

Question 4

How should I handle the donation?

Accepted Answer

To ensure a comfortable and seamless experience, please provide the donation either before or at the beginning of our date. If paying cash, discreetly placed in an unsealed envelope or a gift bag is preferred. If we’re meeting in public, you may place it inside a gift bag or a book.

Question 5

Do you have any requirements or screening process?

Accepted Answer

For my safety and peace of mind, I do require a discreet and straightforward screening process for all new clients. Rest assured, your privacy is my utmost priority, and all information is handled with the highest level of confidentiality.

Some things I may ask for include:

Real Name
terb/merb/perb handle
ID (sensitive information can be blanked out)
Company website or Company email
1-2 recent provider references

Question 6

Where do you host from?

Accepted Answer

I currently welcome guests at The Cougar's Den in Nepean, a private and discrete rental space open to independent providers. There is no signage and plenty of parking. I also offer outcalls for return clientele to select 4, & 5 star hotels. For privacy and safety reasons, I do not visit private residences.When touring, I host from refined hotel suites chosen for their comfort, discretion, and ambiance. Full details are always shared once arrangements are confirmed.

Question 7

Do you see couples?

Accepted Answer

I adore seeing couples. There are fewer things more fun than watching a couple play with one another and being invited to join! I need enthusiastic consent from both parties and a discussion of boundaries beforehand, so I can ensure we all have the best time together. Under no circumstances will I accept a booking where I am a 'surprise' for one party of the couple.

Bookings with couples do not operate on a deposit basis; I take 100% of the full fee upfront. This is non-refundable should you decide to cancel, but transferrable to a date within 60 days from the full fee being paid. I take the full fee upfront as couples have been notorious for rescheduling, cancelling, and disrespecting my business practices.

Dates with couples come with a surcharge of $300 per hour.

Question 8

How far in advance should I book?

Accepted Answer

When on tour, I recommend booking as far in advance as you can. I do not usually have much last minute availability while travelling.

When in Ottawa, I recommend booking at least 24-48 hours in advance to ensure availability, especially for longer engagements or special requests.

Same-day appointments may occasionally be accommodated depending on my schedule. To be considered, your inquiry must be accompanied by a deposit of $100 per hour .

Question 9

What do you typically wear on a date?

Accepted Answer

I take pride in presenting myself with a feminine, polished style that always suits the occasion.For incall settings, I tend to favour elevated athleisure. Soft, flattering pieces that highlight my natural shape while still feeling relaxed and approachable. Think the effortlessly sexy, comfortable, and inviting woman at your local gym or coffee shop.When meeting for an outcall or a date, my style leans more toward chic, business-casual elegance. I enjoy putting together outfits that feel refined, feminine, and quietly confident, perfectly suited for anything from a fine dining experience to a more relaxed evening together.That said, I’m always happy to tailor my look to your preferences. Whether you have something specific in mind or want to coordinate for a particular setting, I love creating a look that enhances the overall experience for us both. Let me know if you'd prefer me in glasses, as that is something I can easily accommodate.

Question 10

What can I expect on a longer date?

Accepted Answer

Dates of three or more hours should include a meal or activity, such as a show (I adore the opera and ballet).

Overnight bookings must include at least one meal (plus breakfast, if booking 16 hours!), social time, and six hours uninterrupted sleep.

Dates of 24 hours or more should include adequate meals each day, social time, a minimum of six hours uninterrupted sleep each night, and a small amount of 'me time' so that I can recharge/respond to personal messages.

Question 11

Can I pay premium for [insert service that I don't offer here]?

Accepted Answer

No.

Question 12

Can I record our private encounter for personal use?

Accepted Answer

No.

Question 13

Why would you cancel a date?

Accepted Answer

In the extremely unlikely event that I do cancel a date with you, it'll be because I've picked up multiple red flags and feel unsafe. These are included but not limited to; boundary pushing, requesting services I don't offer, or simply not taking the time to read my website and familiarise yourself with my business.

In the also extremely unlikely event that I am under the weather and cannot reschedule, you will receive your deposit back within 3 days.

Question 14

Do you accept gifts?

Accepted Answer

Of course. My favourite flowers are peonies and roses, my favourite chocolates are Pierre Marcolini pralines, and my favourite perfume is Dolce & Gabbanna Devotion. My favourite wines are sweet whites, champagnes, and prosecco.

I also have a throne wishlist: throne.com/avastjames

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